Though newer ways of proposing your would-be life partner are no doubt an exciting plan in itself, there are the good old ways of popping out the question. Let’s say, it is something like old is gold. If you are looking for such marriage proposals, then you will have to keep things simple and to the point.
But it doesn’t mean that your proposal should be a black and white affair. No doubt, you’ll have to make a colorful proposal to pass on the impression and thrill of the proposal. Make sure you carry something like a princess cut diamond ring to pass the message across.
If you’re really serious about going through the traditional way, then the first step is not talking to your partner about your impending marriage. What you need to do is to talk to your girlfriend’s father. This is what most of the traditional marriages start off with. This is where your elders get involved and take important decisions about your future.
To make this look more traditional, instead of you talking to her father, let your parents take the initiative. It will be a meet between the parents of you two. Let the other elders from both the families take decisions and you will hardly be on the scene anywhere.
Another traditional way of marriage proposal is getting down on one knee and with a red rose clenched in your mouth. What can go any better than this? Though this is the oldest and probably a boring kind of proposal as a whole, it is new to you as it would be your first time of proposing her. So, the excitement of such a proposal cannot be played down.
However today, not everyone is keen to engage their parents in their relationship. There is a way out yet. You can take her to a restaurant where you can settle down for a candle light dinner. Proposing her over a candle light dinner with a cushion cut diamond ring has a rich sense of traditional value. It’s a mix of new and old as well.
If you want to make the things look more natural to her, request a member of the staff serving at table involved. Ask the waiter to bring the diamond bridal wedding set at the time of the dessert instead of you keeping it with you. That will save you from the trouble of hiding the ring yourself and taking it out without her noticing it. That’ll give you enough space and time to ask her the question of your life. As there will be no one around, she will not be under any pressure at all and can speak out her mind more freely.
How about proposing her at the most common place that you have often visited, something like your balcony? Yes, don’t feel silly or stupid of yourself when pondering over such a proposal. It’ll come out of the blue for her and there will be a lot of surprise quotient in it. Don’t write such a proposal off without trying it.
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